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| Written by Fatima Baron |
| Monday, 17 October 2011 00:00 |
| This one's for both men and women... 1) Don't date/marry the pretentious, money lending, greedy, selfish or needy types. Date-Marry someone independant and full of growth potential. 2) Don't date/marry a man/woman who says you need to loose weight or that tells u what to wear. 3) Don't change for anyone. You are who you are. If they can not love you for who you are, then they are not meant for you. 4) Don't destroy someone else if you don't plan on being with them long term. Don't ever give someone false hope. 5) Don't date/marry someone who is not on the same intellect level as you. The conversation will eventually die, and then there'll be nothing left. 6) Don't date/marry someone who can't stand your bad habits. They'll want to change you constantly to please them. 7) Don't stay in a relationship because you're trying to mend a mistake you made in the past. Don't build a relationship based on past guilts and failures. 8) Don't date/marry someone to please others. 9) Don't date/marry someone that threatens and blackmails you emotionaly. 10) Don't date someone for status reasons. If you think they make you look good, you are already viewing yourself through their eyes. 11) Don't be with someone because they make you look good or because you think they look hot. Looks fade. Seek personality, charm, healthy happiness and charisma. 12) Don't have the same friends as your partner. Have outside friends of your own. This is healthy for both parties. 13) If you know you cannot be with one person, then don't date/marry at all. 14) Don't sleep around. It lowers your self esteem in the long run, and leads to diseases if done irrisponsibly. 15) Don't run after a man/women that has thrown you to the curb. They don't deserve your love at all. 16) Don't argue before bed or saying goodbye before work. Bad things happen. Life ends. We are not immortal. 17) Don't go sleep without resolving an issue be it big or small. 18) If you can't talk to the one who holds your heart, then they not the one for you. You should be able to tell your partner anything. Good or Bad. 19) Don't live your life in the past. You cannot change your wrongs, or turn back the clocks. Work on fixing the future. 20) Don't be afraid to love completely. There is no other way. 21) Don't hold on to ex's or past relationships and loved ones when starting a new one. Its unhealthy. Cut all ties. 22) Heal yourself before trying to heal others. 23) Don't lie, cheat or steal and honour the one you love. This has been said to man since God created us. He knew what he was talking about when he said this. 24) Don't be afraid to take the next step. This is life. There's nothing more to achieve after you've hit 30 years old, except to grow your family. 25) Don't make promises or say sweet nothings if you cannot stay true to them. Believe in yourself and your partner and all things in love and life are possible. We are born, we go to school, we get jobs, we work, we love, we marry, we have kids, we live, we die. Find someone special to share all of this with, have kids and then put them through the same cycle. Its that simple. You either love your partner or you don't. Yes!! Life is that short and simple. Don't waste it on trying to fix the past or heal each other or staying in endless dreary relationships because of feeling like you're in a safe zone. Think before you speak, and listen twice as much as u speak. Don't ever put up with someone trying to rule your life and control you. You are no longer a child reporting back to mum and pops. And last but never least, find someone you can grow with, and not someone that pulls you down or makes you feel inferior. Love is a beautiful thing. Its a selfless feeling. It has no boundaries. Its a known fact, man and women, only ever fall inlove truly, once in a lifetime. Don't be stupid enough to miss your once in a lifetime. Phil . |
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